The NotCouple

The NotCouple is a real couple, but this isn’t a real wedding (hence, the NOT in NotWedding)! The NotCouple is a married couple that will be using this event to renew their wedding vows. We are honored to be able to celebrate these couples as they tie the NOT!

I first saw my lovely bride while I was working the door at a nightclub. She looked like a supermodel; she had this big head of curly hair that made her look extraordinary. I would've never imagined that I would one day marry this girl. Blessed!

We got married at Ashley's farmhouse in rural Iowa (June 17, 2009) and we planned the whole wedding in only nine days (I say we, but it was mostly her). Her pastor married us and the guests included our parents, her grandmother, and her two brothers and their families. I always wanted a small ceremony as did she so it was perfect. The house itself had a love story behind it's 100-year-old construction. Two men were actually competing for the same girl and they each decided to build her a home. She chose this one and I could see why - it looked like the house from "Gone with the Wind." This incredible gem in the middle of corn fields and dirt roads; it was the perfect location.